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Thursday, April 27, 2006

 

Tiga Hari Dua Malam

 I remember telling you not too long ago about my trips to Port Dickson, Malacca, Penang or Johore. Those days, people only knew that pycnogenol was a blogger, though his age remained a mystery. Nowadays, most - if not all - bloggers know that pycnogenol is not as young as people thought him to be (young here being the likes of ayumi, iFos, crimsonskye and hiyoshi).

 Now that some of you know of pycno’s true identity, here is a little something that I want to share with you: Those trips that I took before; not all of them are related to work. You would know by now that I like to be with my family, going on holidays and all. But there are times where I just need to be by myself, to retain my sanity (family can be a constant source of insanity, as I say). It is just that from time to time, I needed that ‘tiga hari dua malam’ to just be all by myself. Coincidentally, Fazley has a new programme going to be shown (or has it already been shown?) over tv9 called ‘tiga hari dua malam’. The producers should’ve called me earlier, for I could have easily fitted in.

 I’m actually just back from my tiga hari dua malam. I wanted to write this entry in a cybercafé. Indeed, I already stepped into one in Penang. However, with my tired old eyes, it was a challenge to recognize the letters on the keyboards which had already been ‘typed’ away by kids frequenting the cybercafé to play games.

 You may be wondering “What can a married man with a number of kids do on holiday by himself?” Well, there are lots of things to do. But before we go to that, let me tell you that I was at a hotel at 1-Stop Midland’s Park, Burmah Road, Penang. It’s located just a stone’s throw away from Gurney Plaza. Yes, that shopping haven by the beach.

 So back to what I did on holiday. Everything I did on this holiday was so relaxing, even from the beginning of the journey. I took the 12.30 a.m. “flight” from Puduraya to Penang and reached the bus terminal (did I say bus? Wasn’t it a flight just now?) at Sungai Nibong, Bayan Lepas Penang, just before Subuh. After performing my Subuh prayers, I took another (flight?) bus to the hotel. I just enjoy doing this kind of traveling i.e. traveling as a commoner, without the fancy aeroplanes whatsoever, and meeting  friendly, ordinary people (the occasional rude ones too) on the bus. At the hotel, the receptionist was kind enough to let me check in early.

 The morning was spent just sleeping. I’m a light sleeper and get easily agitated when people make noise when I start to doze off. And this curse of mine results in stress. So basically on this kind of holiday, I can sleep as peaceful as I want to without anyone interrupting me. Sleep is a big agenda on my solo holidays.

 Second on the list would be food. And it’s a well known fact that Penang is a serious destination for diners. Not that I can eat that much, but it’s a nice treat for the tummy. My favourite has got to be Nasi Kandar Kassim Mustafa. Just a simple plate of nasi kandar with the chicken, mutton or fish curry, and a portion of vegetables. Best of all is that they add a tad bit of kuah-kuah. This small concoction is what brings out the magic of nasi kandar, and till today, no outlet in Kuala Lumpur has managed to offer the same taste. There’s something about the soft and fluffy rice which goes down so well with the kuah and lauk. It’s so good that I have it three times a day, as compared to back at home where I only take rice once a day.

 I don’t go to fancy restaurants. Why should I when I only need to pay under RM 10 for a delicious plate of nasi kandar. Call me cheapskate whatever, but it’s these small pleasures that make me happy. Another favourite on my list is the ABC found at the foodcourt of Gurney Plaza. The vendor just keeps on heaping the red beans, the sweet corn, the agar-agar….Definitely not healthy, but I don’t mind. Another piece of sinful eating would be cheesecake from Secret Recipe, whilst watching television in my hotel room.

 The other thing that I would do is go to a small, quaint bookshop in the shopping complex found next to the hotel itself. Here, I got myself Sue Townsend’s book entitled “Adrian Mole – The Cappucino Years”. It’s a really good book, and really funny too. Got me in stitches while on the bus, and I’m still reading it now.

 Besides that, I also go to the movies by myself. People normally go to movies with their friends, family members or any other stranger. But not me. I just want to enjoy the movie all by myself. If it’s a sad movie, I just want to cry my heart out. If it’s a comedy, I want to laugh my heart out too. This time around, I watched “The Sentinel” and “When A Stranger Calls”. Out of the two, I’d recommend the former.

 Last but not least, shopping. But if you ask me, this time I didn’t buy anything. In the back of my mind, I remember that Bea and the kids are busy spring cleaning the house. I must admit that our house definitely needs this exercise from time to time. If not, there’d be not enough oxygen to go around. However, my clothes are sacred and can never be touched. The others’ clothes are okay to be recycled.

 Tomorrow, after fetching my fourth son from boarding school, we’re going back for yet another tiga hari dua malam, but this time around, it’s a family affair to visit my mother at the kampong. Inspired by drroza’s entry actually, I decided it’s time to perform my sonly (is there such a word?) duties. I wished I could bring along the whole family. Unfortunately, my daughter has debate practice and can’t come along. Otherwise, it’d be nice to have the whole family visiting the grandmother.

 p.s. Now that I’m going for another tiga hari dua malam, should the title be enam hari empat malam?????

 Posted 4/27/2006 9:54 PM - 27 Views - 14 eProps - 12 comments

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I am truly baffled. I am probably old fashioned. I just can't fathom a husband going away on holiday, even if it's tiga hari dua malam, ALONE!! This really came as a surprise to me. I am still imagining how you did all the travelling by yourself. And how Bea had accepted this whole idea is also 'new' to me. But I remembered Bea saying that you were a very private person who treasures your privacy. SO I guess this is one of your 'quirks'. Well, each one his own. So I guess this is your way of unwinding.

Hmmm....tiga hari dua malam....alone.....tak percaya....tak percaya...:P
Posted 4/27/2006 11:12 PM by drroza - reply

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Unbelievable? - Well, DrRoza, you better BELIEVE it !!

Guess it all started from my younger days, when I was still studying in the UK. The course I was following, you see, there were not many Malaysians, except for this one Malay girl. Nak ajak dia pergi holiday pun, susah lah kan? Since my break seldom coincides with my other Malaysian colleagues back then, the only way to make sure that I get to see places too, was travelling all on my own. So, I was going to Blackpool, Manchester, Cambridge, even Edinburgh ALL by myself. Initially, felt a bit lonely, but after sometime, I quite get used to the idea, in fact started to enjoy these 'solo' holidays. Even have photos to prove....Well, I got all those Mat Sallehs to take them lah.

Been to Teluk Cempedak a couple of times all on my own. Duduk tepi pantai bermuhasabah sorang-sorang is HEAVENLY !! Now that I know you and ikelah, Teluk Chempedak has to be struck off from my 'solo' holiday destination. I dont want to be 'surprised' and 'dragged' to your house. ;))
Posted 4/28/2006 4:35 AM by pycnogenol - reply

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:) Keep the title. The next installment (telling us how the visit went) can be Tiga Hari Dua Malam Revisited/Part Two.

I can sort of relate to that, being somewhat 'private' myself. I am not too sure if I would go away on holiday alone in the future (I'd probably be thinking of the kids? Or perhaps the need to get away from it all will be reinforced once I do have children? I dunno). So far O-K is very understanding of my need for space, alhamdulillah. At the moment am sharing a room, which is a bit hard on me, but I get around it by sleeping in the living room (the floor is good for my back) and working odd hours so I can be by myself. I am quite capable of ignoring phone calls and emails if I feel it intrudes into my 'me' time.

I am hungry. My stomach is calling out for food. 'Me' time!
Posted 4/28/2006 4:35 AM by kenakelayan - reply

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Wow you posted at the same time I did!

:) Now you are making me wish I were a boy! If it weren't for a lot of factors, I probably would have gone travelling alone a long time ago! But me being sensible... and out of not wanting to make my loved ones worry... that will just remain a dream. Which I have long ago accepted as impossible. :) Oh well, I guess I have learned to be a little less private. You have to, if you are female.
Posted 4/28/2006 4:39 AM by kenakelayan - reply

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See DrRoza, I know and I'm sure I will have supporter/s somewhere.

Yes Kenakelayan, the need will be reinforced once you have kids of your own and you have to have an understanding partner too. You're lucky if O.K. can understand.
In my case, Bea will even ask me if I need to have my space and be all by myself, especially when she can see that I'm all stressed out. Oh, she's a darling. Thank you Bea.
Posted 4/28/2006 4:46 AM by pycnogenol - reply

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I know, I know...and I agree, not just to your first paragraph, but especially, your second.
If it makes you feel better, yes it does make sense to be less private, if you're female, alone in a foreign land.

I know I'm not helping here, but I'm sure OK is happy to read my response to you. ;))
Posted 4/28/2006 4:51 AM by pycnogenol - reply

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Okay. 3 hari 2 malam all by yourself? That's fun! I am so jealous of you because you are able to do that without anyone stopping you while I can't. Firstly, obviously because I am a girl, secondly maybe due to the overprotectiveness of my family towards me. While most people might think it is boring to be doing activities alone, I think otherwise. I like going out alone. I mean, to the mall or somewhere safe-lah. I do not like people tagging along while I 'cuci mata' shopping or someone nagging me to be faster while choosing something to buy. Fortunate for you, your wife doesn't mind you going to holiday ALONE, pycnogenol. I can't imagine my dad going to holiday alone. Maybe, he's not that kind of person after all. Even if he does, I can guarantee you that he would be calling home every hour of the day, demanding to know what's going on while he's away! :p
Posted 4/28/2006 5:36 PM by wiTcHh4Z3L - reply

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Hazel - Alhamdulillah. We may differ in our musical taste, but we are sure UNITED on this 'need-to-be-all-by-yourself' issue. ;)

But just like your dad, calls and sms tu, tak putus-putus laa. Everyone at home will even know how many helpings of Nasi Kandar I had per day. What is most important is, they know that I'm having a good relaxing time, and they are happy for me too.

Do you know that I will still be doing the "Subuh-Wake-Up Calls" even when I'm away on my 'solo-holidays'?? ;((
Posted 5/2/2006 5:41 AM by pycnogenol - reply

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Salaam..
I was as shocked as Dr. Roza, too.. you are one rare species, actually! :D You're only the second person whom I've heard who prefers watching movies alone.. By the way, I wouldn't dream to watch "When A Stranger Calls" at the cinema!
Posted 5/3/2006 2:26 PM by ayumi_of_mirkwood - reply

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Sleep is a big agenda eh? Hehe.. I can relate to that. And I know exactly what you mean about watching movies alone- especially during those teary-eyed moments!

Like ayumi and drroza, I find it's fascinating that you could organize your own trips all by yourself. You're so lucky :)
Posted 5/3/2006 9:43 PM by crimsonskye86 - reply

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I wish I could have my own personal hoildays. Unfortunately, I'm bound by unspoken 'laws' at home. However, I really like the idea of being somewhere all by myself. At the moment, the only place where I can be by myself is in my bedroom. Oh, and the bathroom too.
Posted 5/5/2006 11:57 AM by hiyoshi - reply

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you went travelling all by yourself!!!..it is something to be admired..i like to try that,but being a girl it is hard for me to do so..

i am someone who needs friends around me, and definitely cannot be leave all alone..cut it short, i am dependent to others..i never imagine myself being alone for holidays..so, 'personal holidays' and being far away all by myself is somewhat a new idea to me..but, the way you describe your '3 hari 2 malam' sounds interesting..herm..maybe i should give a try when i come back to Malaysia this summer...

Posted 5/22/2006 11:03 PM by cassablancha - reply


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